Relationship. It’s kinda funny to write about this, since I’m just a boy who trying to be a men, lacking of experience, and still learning about the relationship it self.
Hmm. For me relationship is about knowing, understanding, and accepting your partner no matter what. But some times it’s pretty hard for us to do those three things I mention above.
Why is it hard?
First, because we don’t have that sixth sense to know what’s going on inside your partner head. Some people may have it, but most of us don’t.
That first reason could be eliminated actually, if we have the second: A good communication.
As I write above, in the title, communication is the key. Yepp, by communicating, we could know what our partner want’s and dont’s.
A good cmmunication can decrease the ratio of miscommunication, also.
I know that some times there’s a hesitation in our heart when we want to deliver what we want to say. We afraid that our partner will get upset, mad, or angry because of what we said. And the worst case that we could imagine is, he or she leaving you.
But hey. I think the ones that trully love you, the ones that really care about you, they will never leave you just because of what you said. (In some special cases, may be it’d be different: cheating, etc).
As long as you being honest, truthful, your partner, InsyaAllah, will always understand.
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*To be continue*
*An urgent duty comes: hunger*